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Save yourselves..

Last night I had an appallingly vivid dream that a group of friends and I found ourselves stranded somewhere that required climbing out of and I couldn’t manage.

My subconscious is turning on me.

Our group of school mates, who have remained close, despite being scattered to every corner of the world, aren’t in bad shape.

As we frequently remind each other. ‘Look at you, so gorgeous’. ‘No you…. You never change’

We love and admire each other. It’s a good thing.

But, truth be told, there is only one of us who is an athlete. She is a machine. Running, cycling, paddling…. You name it. The girl has done it and is still doing it.

As a result, we never let her suggest an activity when we get together. We have to drug her to get to our level of happy slothness.

She must have got us into the dire situation in my dream.

In my dream, she was behind me, instructing me how to climb out. Pushing my bum actually.

I was not brave.

I can’t, I wailed, leave me, save yourselves.

We can’t get around you, she announced, if you don’t climb out, we’ll all die.

Bloody hell… Who needs that pressure.

I’m on my rowing machine as I write. Cycling next.

Can’t let mates perish can we?

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You read me wrong

I have dreadful handwriting. When my lovely man met me and witnesed me filling in a form, he gasped ‘diabolical’.

I once had my handwriting assessed, and the analyser (who I suspect changed careers or ended themselves thereafter), had no comment except that I was perhaps a pyschopath.

I suspect that algorithms can’t get a firm grip on me either.

I am continually hounded by people offering the perfect gift for an aviation enthusiast close to my heart. I know not one.

I am also plagued by some crowd who claim to be best suited to improve my goatmilking skills.

I mean,  what the actual… how is this even a market?

I am further bombarded by a group sharing their retirement challenges, concerns, experiences or advice.

This is of more interest, and is something, I understand, that should be thought through.

One suggested hobby that bears serious consideration….is ‘gator wrestling’.

Yes…this is a thing. Often suggested by the long suffering wife I suspect.

Is this why Florida is popular for retirement? A big saving on gym fees.

Something to think about if my lovely man gets under my feet.

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Do you want to know what I think…?

I am seldom without an opinion. And it’s not one I often keep to myself.

Adorable hey?

I wanted to make a trip to visit some family and friends recently. Miraculously… I persuaded my lovely man to come with me. He loves his home, he loves me, he’d like to keep us together at all times, but mostly if a separation is required, he chooses to stay at home.

So… This was big.

I booked us a little BnB. It was lovely… Within 3 minutes, I established 3 things that were problematic.

I politely asked them to get their shit together already.

I reminded myself ‘nobody likes a lecture… Keep your mouth shut’.

My lovely man looked at my face and said ‘nobody likes a lecture, keep your mouth shut’.

I do love to lecture and nag… I couldn’t help myself.

‘Do you check everything is working before a new guest arrives?’, I gently enquired.

They do, we were informed, they just don’t check these things.

Shut it, my lovely man reminded me.

‘Do you think a check list would help, I asked, I can draw one up if you like.’

We are, not surprisingly, never allowed at the same place twice.

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I’m sorry, I don’t speak Eyebrow

I’m a bit of an outsourcer me. I know when I’m out of my depth and need expert help.

Although I generally have an opinion, most of the time when I outsource, my expectation is that said expert reads my mind and gets on with it, with only the vaguest of explanations and guidance.

Not unreasonable is it?

For well after 55 years, I lived with and managed my own eyebrows. I know! Crazy. The most I have done is to ensure that things didn’t turn into a monobrow.

In the last year, for whatever reason, I am outsourcing the management of my eyebrows.

Not without some regret.

The same lady, that sees me with some regularity, is always a bit surprised at the apparent state of my brows. She repeatedly shares with me that my face and brows are not symmetrical. I, disappointedly, do not fall into that 2% of the human population.

She further reminds me that my eyebrow hair grows differently. I have independently behaving eyebrows. Who knew?

And then, the dreaded jargon and my subsequent, but inevitable confusion starts.

The neutralisation is not holding on this side my lovely eyebrow technician announced.

Oh! I replied intelligently.

What would you like me to do, she enquired patiently.

I ignored her and continued to keep my eyes closed, hoping she would just get on with it.

She waited.

Reluctantly, I opened my eyes and sure enough, she was gazing at me expectantly.

It’s not taken as warmly on this side she nudged, what are your thoughts?

I had many thoughts… none useful to this question.

Whatever you think is best….. I suggested cautiously.

She sighed…. I really am such a disappointment.

I always over tip, because clearly me and my eyebrows are a complete trial.

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It’s a trial

My lovely man and I are on dental programmes to sort out our gnashers.

He has been eating like a rabbit for some time, so is getting some back teeth put in. I’m unsure where he misplaced the originals.

I have long admired nice teeth, so am trying to get a set of my own.

I didn’t actually realize how much was wrong until I started on this journey. As it turns out, my gums need repair, my teeth need alignment, and only then can they make a start on the pretty stuff.

Apart from being unpleasant, everything takes an age. With long periods of healing in between stages.

The poor souls who drew the short straw to take me on as a patient, are simply marvelous.

They do suffer me, no doubt.

They have marked on my file ‘Not brave, and inclined to whinge. Very inclined’.

Rude, but probably accurate.

I have now set a deadline, because I have a wedding to attend (not mine you’ll be relieved to know), and would like to have teeth for it.

In the most recent discussions with my dear, long suffering dentist, I reminded him…

I’d like to be fully sedated for the next stage please.

So would I, he replied.

Is it possible to get a proxy I asked

I’m going to, he announced

Is this something I could get a surrogate for, I continued

Please do, he agreed

I think he’s going to call in sick.

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Surely not

Did you watch Ted Lasso? Fantastic series, we loved it.

You will, of course, remember Hannah Waddingham in it. She is the most fabulous.

Anyway… I came across an article where she was asked what keeps her so fabulous.

Of course the answer was buried within one of those clickbait things that makes you read and scroll for three days past 400 adverts.

I usually avoid anything that requires me to ‘read more on the link below!’, but hey, Hannah was about to divulge the fountain of youth.

And she says….(I won’t make you scroll further)… It’s lip liner.

Really? That’s what makes it possible to bounce a coin off her buttocks?

So… I got some and sure enough. Knocked ten years off.

And I swear my glutes are firmer.

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Gangsta land

We have nine bird feeders. Yes, nine. I’m not quite sure how this has happened, but it is the state of things. In a very small yard.

My lovely man diligently fills these feeders up, and he has to do it every second day, because clearly we are hosting every bird within a 100km radius.

We go through A LOT of wild bird seed. It’s delivered by Takealot (of course), by the truckload.

We also have a beloved little rat mouse, Monty, to consider.

Sadly, in the last month, we have found two dead birds in the yard.

They were not emaciated, to be sure, but they were dead.

At least I hope they were, because I dispose of the poor little things in a zip lock bag. With a little blessing of course, but still.

I try not think about it.

Although, I do wonder, if this is going to continue, if Takealot sell little bells I can put in to the zip lock bag, so they can alert us if they awake within their zip lock bag in a panic. Maybe a mobile phone with my number programmed in.

I digress…

Why, I asked my lovely man, are these birds perishing?

We both regarded Ginger Nutless Max cat with some suspicion… But he reminded us that ‘he’s a really nice guy’ and also… If he caught Monty or any bird, he would present it to me via my pillow.

They are fighting…. My Lovely Man solemnly advised me.

Who are fighting I enquired? The birds?

Yes, he said, they are fighting each other to the death over the food. It’s obvious.

Are you saying, I clarified, they are shanking each other over the bird food?

I think so, he said, it’s a dog eat dog world out there.

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Let’s just do it

My lovely man LOVES his ice cream. Every day, after his lunch, there is always, always room for a bowl of ice cream.

The only exception to this habit, is if he has a chocolate milkshake.. Which is, mostly ice cream.

On any number of occasions, he has smacked his lips, sighed with contentment and advised me that he could quite happily live on ice cream and beer.

We all need something to live for hey?

Anyway… I bought him a box of six ‘Big Deal Mint Crunch’ ice cream on a stick. Like Magnums I guess.

He didn’t notice them for a few days, and then I asked him if he’d tried them yet and what were they like.

Well, apparently 5 star. Happiness.

So I tried one, and yes, very nice.

Some time later he said… Are these big deal ice creams more expensive than ice cream in a tub, because I don’t mind, if it’s easier, if you only get those.

I think they are more expensive I advised.

Well, he said, let’s do the maths, but I suppose we’ll have to factor it in if you are going to eat them too. How many a week do you think you’ll have?

Darling, I announced, they are 5 times more expensive per ml of ice cream.

Oh, he said, that’s not too bad then is it?

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Just love the ditherers already

I was at the vet the other day with one of our fur babies.

If you are ever in need of a way to deplete your funds, get a fur baby and a caring vet who says things like ‘this is the expensive route, but probably necessary’.

Anyway… While I was sitting there waiting for the final bill and hoping the markets and my savings don’t plummet again because I need every cent to deal with the latest elderly pet challenge, I witnessed the behaviors of two completely different women.

The first was completely in charge. You know the type. The woman who wrestles the wheel from Jesus and mutters ‘Just let me do it’. Looking around, slightly impatient and mildly irritated that not everyone is as efficient and organized as she is. Her pet effectively treated and back in its little box she has a firm grip on. Get a move on, she’s got shit to do. And it’s important.

The second is a ditherer. She emerges from a room with her completely out of control pet who is desperate to exit the vicinity and is dragging her along the floor to the door.

She vaguely realizes she probably needs to do something before she can leave, but is not quite sure what it is.

And then… Kindness.

Mrs Efficient, puts the boxed cat on the chair, controls the hysterical dog, gently leads the lady to the reception… Tells her to go first, she can wait..

And that people, is how it should be. If you can help, help. Choose kindness. Made my day.

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Are you ready?

Does your lovely man have some pet frets? Mine does, bless him.

I have pet peeves, he has pet frets.

Top of mind, for him is AI.

Of all things.

Darling, he advised me, everything I read stresses that we need to be AI ready.

Are you AI ready he enquires of me.

I am not, I admit.

What is AI, he asks, I don’t feel I am in the least competent in it.

This is probably true as he refers to it, for starters, as A1.

You are retired, I reminded him, you don’t need to be AI competent, stop worrying about it.

Perhaps we should buy this book, he continued, or enroll on this six month course for a mere USD 2,000. It sounds critical.

That’s a hard no from me.

So, finally, I have come up with a cunning plan.

When you are competent with the TV remote, I tell him, I’ll teach you AI.

Every time he brings it up, we are going to have a TV Remote test. And then I’ll ask him to Google something.